Wanted vs. Existing

Today’s scripture: (NRSV) (The Message) (KJV) What might God be saying to me?

My thoughts (Kristin Herrmann):

In the movie As Good As It Gets, successful novelist Melvin Udall pursues a romantic relationship with his favorite waitress, Carol Connelly. His attempts to woo her are thwarted by his negative disposition and a variety of unusual behaviors caused by a dirt and germ phobia accompanied by obsessive-compulsive tendencies. Late in the movie, Carol cries out in frustration, wondering why she can’t just have a normal boyfriend. Her mother wisely advises that normalcy is what everyone wants but doesn’t exist. Carol must then decide whether she can open herself to the new idea/definition/appearance of a boyfriend Melvin is able to provide.

In today’s reading, one of the criminals being crucified next to Jesus mocks him. According to this criminal, if Jesus is the Messiah, then he should be able to save himself and those hanging next to him. The text provides no other information about the man or the reasoning for his comments. Perhaps he uttered taunting words because his heart was truly hardened. But perhaps the hope he had of meeting the Messiah was destroyed when Jesus didn’t fit the idea/definition/appearance he had held and his words are just his crying out in frustration.

I find comfort in my belief that God performs works in our lives using the people around us. I appreciate a better knowledge of God by valuing the diversity in those created in the same image. At the same time, I have to force myself not to discount someone’s presence and contribution just because their political, social, or religious views differ from mine.

I’m not saying all people who come into our lives are meant to better it, or that we shouldn’t discern with whom to continue making connections. I just need to make sure I don’t turn away from a growing experience just because the person doesn’t act or look according to my preconceptions.

Thought for the day: Am I open to all the different ways Jesus can work in my life?

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