The Door Is Closed. Go Check the Window.

Today’s scripture: 1 Corinthians 10:13 (NRSV) (KJV) (The Message) What might God be saying to me?

My thoughts (Cheryl Stonestreet):

This passage gave me strength during a tough time.

A few years ago my longtime friend from childhood betrayed my trust. The betrayal cut deeply, for she was my oldest friend and I considered her like a sister. I thought I knew her; how could she do that?

The incident caused me to seriously evaluate our relationship and my friendships with others in our circle. I concluded I had to separate from “my gang,” forge a new life, and reinvent myself again. It was an excruciating decision. I felt like an Israelite being led into exile to Babylon. I never felt weaker or more alone. It was hard meeting new friends. It was hard learning how to trust others again.

Eventually, I was led to new friends — friends who live by the same principals and morals that I value. I’ve heard it said many times, God never shuts a door without opening a window. And like the passage says, I knew this was not an uncommon experience. How many of us felt scorn from people we thought we could trust when we came out or divulged something deeply personal? How many of us have had to restructure our lives to fit with what we know is right for each of us?

God was faithful to me in this instance, and many others. I am always shown a way out if I am faithful and am abiding to God’s will for me (and when I am scared and messing up, too). I am always given relief before I hit my breaking point. God is faithful, full of grace, and knows how much I can handle.

Thought for the day: What windows am I overlooking?

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